Toyota 1HZ cylinder head 11101-17010
Praise or blame, it comes and goes like the wind.
Rip off the labels of "me".
None of it matters at all.
| Model | 1HZ |
| Part NO | 11101-17010 |
| Place of Originj | CHINA |
What are honor and praise? Why do they make us happy? Which
psychological aspect is being satisfied?
When you're cold, can praise keep you warm? When you're hungry, can
praise replace a meal? When you're tired, can praise substitute for
rest?
In reality, praise can neither serve as clothing, food, or rest,
nor can it solve any other practical problems. So why do we care so
much about honor and praise, even valuing them more than life
itself? The psychological foundation of this attachment is
self-grasping.
The nature of self-grasping manifests in several characteristics:
First, a sense of importance. Who is the most important person in
the world? Everyone feels—"I" am the most important. Things
originally unrelated to you suddenly become significant once
labeled as "mine." Remove the label, and they become just like
everything else.
But the "self" is like a shell company—an empty sensation with no
substantial content. Thus, it constantly reinforces its own
importance to gain a sense of existence.
Second, a sense of superiority. Everyone wants to feel superior to
others. Anything related to "me" must appear exceptional.
Because we overvalue so-called honor, we become angry when
slandered or humiliated by others. Only by recognizing the illusory
nature of honor can we face it with equanimity, remaining unshaken
when honor is damaged and accepting it peacefully.
Whether it's praise and honor or slander and attack, they are
ultimately like the wind—they come and go. None of it truly
matters.
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